Counseling is something to help both of you understand what each of you are looking for to be satisfied with your relationship. With out that understanding it can tear at any relationship.

I know that feeling when it comes to the furbys . With husband no longer of this Earth but part of it and when he would tell me I was getting cabin fever ( other times he would use the term " squirrelly "
) and would send me off for a weekend he was here to tend to the needs of all three furbys while I was getting some " me time " as he for some reason liked to call it . Alas such cases if me time are no more because now the furbys art mine connection to him and the bain of mine existence and their care both physical and mental is what matters most to enable me to retain what sanity I still posses.

the trouble with me is i dont leve that close to a major cty and they sure aint gonna come out away from their bars to the middle of a swamp and i cant go lookin cause i have too many animals

I wish I did too now that the last one decided to give up the ghost after a mere 32 years together 😗

i would rather have a good hubby