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Me he estado preguntando cómo y cuándo decirle a mi hermano mayor que soy VIH+. Si las cosas van mal, él será en quien me apoyaré, en quien pediré ayuda. Sé con certeza que no se lo diré hasta que termine Navidad. Y, sinceramente, entre él y mi hermana menor, es menos probable que mi hermano mayor le cuente esto a nadie más.
Entonces, ¿cuánto tiempo esperó después de su diagnóstico antes de contárselo a su familia (hermanos, hermanas, mamá, papá) y amigos? ¿Cómo fueron sus reacciones?
I've been wondering how and when to tell my older brother that I'm HIV+. If things go south, he's gonna be the one that I lean on, that I ask for help. I know for a fact that I'm not going to tell him until after Christmas is over. And honestly, between him and my younger sister, my older brother is least likely to tell this to anyone else.
So, how long after your diagnosis did you wait before you told your family (brothers, sisters, mom, dad) and friends? What was their reactions like?
I disclosed my status as soon as I found out. Most of my family are on a need to know basis. The ones that do know are my support. We usually don't even talk about it unless I'm going to the doctors and my mom ask, which one. Other than that it's not mentioned. I'm guessing because I have never had complications. I which I really thank God for.
Immediately after I found out. My parents made me promise to let them know. Very few others know. Unless there is need, I shan't tell anyone else.
El día que me diagnosticaron.
The day I was diagnosed .
No me molesté en decírselo a mi familia porque estaba separada de ellos. Nunca los repudié; pero sabía que no darían ni un esfínter de rata, entonces, ¿por qué desperdiciar mi energía? Estoy genial, trabajé durante 57 años y me jubilé el primer fin de semana de septiembre. Voy a empezar a utilizar y disfrutar de los beneficios de vuelo de mi tripulación de aerolínea.
I didn't bother to tell my family since I was estranged from them. I never disowned them; but, I knew they wouldn't give a rat's sphincter, so why waste my energy. I am great, worked for 57 years and retired first weekend in September, Going to start using and enjoying my airline crew flight benefits.
At the time I told my son and wife of 25 years. My wife was angry but supportive. She is a queen by Gods grace. We are still married. We pressed thru this tragedy. I fucked up. But I told her. It was the most difficult conversation I'd ever had. I will remember it until I die. O my God!
The grace of God brought me thru
