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¿Culpa Por Supervivencia A Largo Plazo?

Long-Term Survival Guilt?

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Richmond, VA

Conozco mi estado desde finales de los 70, me vi obligado a confesarlo también a mi familia después de que colapsé en el trabajo, fui hospitalizado y se esperaba que muriera en unas semanas. Obviamente no lo hice, pero repetiría este escenario TRES veces más. La última vez fue hace apenas 3 años. Después de informar a los miembros de mi familia, muchos de ellos se prepararon para el día en que yo moriría, pero la vida puede ser extraña, porque de repente otros miembros de mi familia comenzaron a… leer más

I've known of my status since the late 70's, I was forced to come-out about it too my family after I collapsed at work, was hospitalized and was expected to die within weeks. Obviously, I didn't but I would repeat this scenario, THREE more times. The last time being just 3 years ago. After I informed my family members, many of them prepared for the day I would die but life can be strange, because suddenly other members of my family started becoming sick ( not from AIDS/HIV ) & dying. I've had 4… read more

12 de abril de 2018
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Un miembro de myHIVteam

Be proud and continue to live strong....

16 de abril de 2018
Un miembro de myHIVteam

Really? I served on the Ryan White Peer-review team for the East coast for 2 years & it was our job to insure that things like you just said, didn't happen, and I assure you we did our job, but that was back in the late 80's. I truly hope things haven't really gotten as bad as you say. If so, then it's a set-back not just for people of color but for us ALL!
Kevin

13 de abril de 2018
Un miembro de myHIVteam

Absolutely. It sounds like the same feelings that drove me into Psychoanalysis in the late 80s. I still live with Survivor Guilt Syndrome-or as I call it "Why Me" syndrome. However my analyst equipped me with the tools I needed to deal with it.

13 de abril de 2018
Un miembro de myHIVteam

I felt so bad when my lover passed on Nov. 3 of 1995 and I wasn't even sick. He was just 29 and we had only been together for 3 years. I know he was bad for me because he shot up meth and I did it with him but that doesn't keep you from loving someone. He had 2 daughters from a wife, and I had a boy and girl from my wife. I helped his daughters out a lot after he died, but my wife did not want me to see my kids at all so I gave her the rights, but they got disability from my check. I felt guilty because he died 1 month before the new drug Indinivir came out, and even told me that as soon as he died they would come up with a cure. It wasn't a cure but kept everyone from dying everywhere. He suffered so much with pneumonia and couldn't even breath in the end. I had to leave the hospital because his family would not allow me there in the very end. They even threatened me not to go to his funeral and I didn't. He gave me this, but they blamed me. I don't care what they did 27 years ago, but do miss him so much. I don't even have a picture of him. I'm afraid I have forgotten what he looked like. I can remember his laugh and ways though. Life hasn't been about much since.

14 de abril de 2018
Un miembro de myHIVteam

Ok, but what does any of what your talking about have to do with my question about survival guilt?
Kevin

14 de abril de 2018

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